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What Is Pairing & How Is It Used In ABA Therapy?

cgross · January 24, 2022 · Leave a Comment

Table of contents

  • What Is Pairing And Why Is It Important?
  • What Are The Steps For “Successful” Pairing?
  • After Pairing

You finally arrange for your child to start ABA services, and the therapist arrives at the door for the first day of therapy. Naturally, you are excited to have your child in treatment, and you probably envisioned what therapy sessions would look like. You may have imagined something formal and clinical. Maybe you envisioned a therapist arriving and instantly grabbing your child’s attention with some professional “magic” and checking a behavior goal off of the list in the first week.

Instead, you are met with a cheerful and friendly therapist who plops down on the floor with your child and starts to join in on whatever activity your child is currently in the midst of. If the child is coloring, you may see the therapist join in while reinforcing the activity with verbal praise, “ooooooo, I love coloring and drawing!” If your child is playing a game on the tablet, the therapist might make some observations and get excited with your child at each accomplishment.

Your therapist continues to follow your child around, joining in and reinforcing all of your child’s activity choices. This goes on for several sessions. You may start to wonder- “What is going on here? Who is in charge? The therapist or my child?” 

Rest assured. There is a reason that your therapist is letting your child lead the way. Your therapist is building rapport and trust with your child. In ABA, we refer to this as pairing and it is an important first step to starting ABA services.  Without it, a therapist may experience resistance from your child to the demands of the treatment plan.

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What Is Pairing And Why Is It Important?

Pairing refers to the time period when your child’s new therapist spends time building a working (playing) relationship with your child. This usually happens during the first week or two of ABA therapy.

Mom Playing With Sand With Her Daughter

During the pairing phase, your ABA therapist will get to know your child through play. They will discover your child’s likes and dislikes, and they will take note of the things that motivate your child to participate in the therapy sessions. Most importantly, your therapist will make sure that they have the instructional control that they need to guide your child in a fun yet effective way.

These pairing sessions will be unstructured and fun. The therapist will follow your child’s lead in order to discover what your child gravitates to during playtime. The therapist will interact and playfully test skills like imaginary play, building, sequencing, communicating, and more. All of this can be done in play form.

Demands are kept low during the pairing phase. Your ABA therapist knows that if too many demands are placed on the child before a good working relationship is established, the child may not want to comply with the demands that will inevitably be placed on them during ABA sessions.The last thing any therapist wants is to become involved in a power struggle with a young client with autism. A good therapist knows that once trust and rapport are established with a child it is much easier to place demands on the child during the session.

What Are The Steps For “Successful” Pairing?

There is a process for establishing a good relationship with a client who has autism. The goal of a successful pairing is to establish the therapist as someone wonderful and positive to look forward to at session time.

When your therapist arrives, your child should be happy and excited that the therapist is here! If your child cries or runs away and refuses to work with the therapist, it is safe to say that the pairing process needs some work. If your child continues to reject the therapist after a couple of weeks of pairing, it could be that the therapist is not a good match for your child. It is not uncommon to encounter times when a child with autism and the therapist cannot seem to pair up successfully.

Two Toddlers Showing A Parent Or Therapist Their Toys

Most ABA agencies have dealt with this scenario, and it is perfectly okay to call your supervising Behavior Analyst to request a different therapist. 

If your therapist is a good match, the pairing is typically successful in a short period of time if some simple steps are followed.

First, the therapist should follow the child’s motivation. When the therapist is following the child’s lead, the therapist is discovering which activities the child finds reinforcing. This helps the therapist to develop a working trust between the child and the therapist. For example, if a child picks up a ball to play with, the therapist can say “Wow, a red ball. That looks fun. I love playing ball.” Anything that the child does should be met with enthusiasm and parallel play as much as possible.

Slowly over time, the therapist can place some small demands and gauge how the child responds. Simple demands like, “come with me” or “look at this” can be delivered while still following the child’s choice of activities. Let the child run the show and discover what it is that motivates and excites them.

Once the relationship and the trust have been established, placing demands will be easier. Most therapists will know that they have earned that right to start placing demands during therapy when they can easily grab the child’s attention, when the child follows them, or if the child complies with simple directives. Furthermore, the child usually will display minimal maladaptive behaviors.

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After Pairing

Once the initial pairing phase has been established and the treatment plan is in full swing, the pairing continues. The pairing process will never truly stop. The relationship between the client and the therapist will grow, and there will be the normal ups and downs that any friendship or relationship may endure.

 A Therapist Observing A Toddler Draw Images

At these points in the relationship, the therapist will sometimes step back and rebuild that rapport with the child before pushing the demands any further.

The end goal is to reinforce appropriate behavior, diminish inappropriate behavior, and continually develop the necessary skills that the child needs. It has to be fun and reinforcing, or it becomes too difficult for the client and the therapist.

Circle Care in New Jersey can pair you up with a therapist that will establish a good working relationship with your child. If your child with autism requires ABA services, we have wonderful professionals on staff to help your child and your family. Your child will benefit from a playful, highly reinforcing environment whether treatment is conducted at home, at school, or in our Center.  

We look forward to hearing from you. 

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What Does Mild Autism Look Like In Toddlers?

cgross · January 13, 2022 · Leave a Comment

Table of contents

  • At what age does a child with autism talk?
  • Can a child with mild autism have a normal life?
  • What should I do if my child has mild autism?

During the first two years of life it can be difficult to identify typical and not so typical behavior- especially if you are a first time parent. Toddlers do some surprising things, and it is easy to question some of their behaviors, especially when there are concerns about the possibility of your child having developmental delays.

It is easy to miss some of the early signs of autism during the first two years because language is limited from birth to 24 months of age. But, there are some signs that you can watch out for during these months that differ from typically developing peers.

Most toddlers with autism will start to sit, crawl, and walk at the appropriate time. The most significant differences in toddlers with autism will start to reveal themselves in communication, social interactions, and behavior.

Communication Signs of Autism In Toddlers

Some common communication signs may include:

  • No single words at 12-15 months and no two word phrases by 24 months
  • Repeats words without understanding the meaning (parroting or echolalia)
  • Do not respond to their own name
  • Less likely to point at objects or share objects with others
  • A visible loss of language or social interactions between 15 and 24 months

Social Signs Of Autism In Toddlers

Some common social signs may include:

  • Little or no eye contact
  • Little or no response to parent’s facial expressions
  • Does not look at objects that parent is pointing to
  • Does not point out objects to parent
  • Does not display appropriate facial expressions
  • Difficulty understanding what others are feeling by seeing their facial expressions
  • Less likely to show empathy for others

Behavioral Signs of Autism In Toddlers

Some common behavioral signs may include:

  • Hypersensitivity to certain sights, sounds, smells, lights, textures, or touch from others
  • Obsessed with and repeating unusual activities
  • Difficulty transitioning from one activity to another
  • Has difficulty deviating from established routines, rituals, and specific order
  • Improper use of toys: Example- playing with parts instead of the whole toy
  • May not express fear
  • May not cry when in pain
  • Displays stereotypic behaviors such as hand flapping, rocking, pacing, spinning, swaying, or walking on toes

At what age does a child with autism talk?

Young Girl Drawing A Rainbow With Markers On A Glass Window

Children with autism may or may not have delays in speech depending on the severity of their symptoms of autism. Some children with autism speak early and have advanced vocabularies. Other children with autism may not show any sign of speaking during the first two years.

Although there may be some variation in the development from one child to another, there are some typical milestones for development that are useful for reference if you are concerned about whether or not your child may have autism.

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Can a child with mild autism have a normal life?

The short answer to the question as to whether a child with autism can lead a normal life is- yes!

Autism is a spectrum disorder which means that the symptoms of autism range from mild to severe in the way that these symptoms appear in each individual. The milder the symptoms, the higher the likelihood is that a child with autism will be able to overcome many of the social, communication and behavioral deficits that hinder them in their daily lives.

Playroom With Diverse Group Of Toddlers Playing With Their Parents

Toddlers with autism who are mild to moderate are also very likely to overcome many of the deficits if they receive early intervention. Although it is not impossible, it becomes increasingly challenging to work through deficits as a child gets older.

A child with mild autism can ultimately lead a very “normal”, productive, and independent life. With early intervention, a child with autism can learn the skills needed for successful navigation in communication and social interaction with peers in school. They can also work through behavioral challenges that are inappropriate in social settings such as school, work, and other public places.

Many children with mild autism who received early intervention and guidance in their developmental years are virtually indistinguishable from their peers in the adolescent and adult years.

Generally speaking, a child with mild autism who also receives ABA intervention has two distinct advantages working in his/her favor: 

Growth & Maturity

The first advantage is growth and maturity. Many children with mild autism tend to “outgrow” some of the distinguishing characteristics of autism as they reach adolescence and adulthood. However, symptoms of autism are not really something that one outgrows- it is more likely that a child with mild autism learns to assimilate into various settings and situations in order to fit in. 

Even though many children with autism struggle to “read the room” and take notice of other people’s responses to their behaviors- some children with mild autism can feel the rejection or the apprehension from others, and they begin to make the adjustments on their own by observing how their peers behave in a group or how they behave in certain environments.

Skills For Success

The second advantage is that ABA intervention can teach a child with autism the skills that are necessary for academic success, socializing and communicating with others in appropriate ways. ABA also focuses on increasing socially appropriate behaviors while decreasing inappropriate behaviors that cause a child with autism to be excluded from their peer groups or fall behind in school. For children with mild autism, ABA can be just what is needed to fill that gap between what they have already accomplished and what they still need to learn in order to be successful in all areas of their lives.

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If a toddler with mild autism is given the right guidance and support at an early age, the chances of overcoming their social/behavioral deficits and becoming successful are high. In fact, many children with mild autism excel above and beyond their peers due to their ability to super-focus on tasks or learning, and to think creatively in an unorthodox way that many of their peers would fail to exercise. Children with mild autism often become adults with high work ethic, brilliant skill sets in their personal areas of interest, and great innovators. 

What should I do if my child has mild autism?

The best thing any parent or caregiver can do for a toddler with mild autism is to seek intervention immediately after a diagnosis of autism. Children can begin ABA services as early as one year of age and continue for as long as necessary to learn appropriate life skills.

Two Toddlers Playing On The Floor With Blocks

Circle Care Services is a New Jersey based agency that provides ABA services to children with autism and their families. Circle Care provides one to one behavioral therapy services, social skills groups, parent training, and pre-school readiness programs.

Contact us at Circle Care and arrange a free consultation with one of our expert Behavior Analysts. Our Behavior Analysts can meet with you and your child to create a treatment program that meets your family’s needs and goals for your child.

We look forward to hearing from you soon!

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Early Intervention For Toddlers With Autism

cgross · January 13, 2022 · Leave a Comment

Table of contents

  • What is Early Intervention?
  • Can early intervention cure autism?
  • Where can I find early intervention services?
  • Early Intervention With Circle Care Services

Early intervention for toddlers with autism refers to the time at which therapeutic services begin to treat the symptoms of autism. There are a variety of services that a child with autism may require. These services can include any or all of the following:

  • Speech Therapy
  • Occupational Therapy
  • Behavioral Management
  • Nutritional Therapy
  • Medication
  • Educational Strategies
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
  • Applied Behavior Analysis Therapy

Deciding which types of therapies or strategies to use for early intervention is something that needs to be decided by you, as the caregiver or parent of a child with autism. A good place to start exploring all of the early intervention options is by talking to your pediatrician.

What is Early Intervention?

Early Intervention is one of the most effective ways to prepare your child with autism for the years ahead. Your child needs to be able to communicate, listen and learn, respond to adults and peers, and behave appropriately in social settings whether on the playground or in some other public setting. It is also important for your child to understand boundaries and positive ways to behave and communicate within your own family unit as well. 

Two Toddlers Laying Amongst Colorful Blocks & Laughing

The earlier you start intervention services, the greater the chances are for your child to get a good start in school. This is important because creating a positive experience when a child first starts to attend school just may set the tone for the school years ahead. If a child with autism has a negative start at the beginning of their school years, it could hinder them from learning and acclimating to the school environment for an extended period of time.

By starting intervention services as soon as your child is diagnosed, your child will start to learn and adapt to the norms and expectations that they will encounter wherever they go. These skills need to be taught because many of the social norms that we take for granted are very difficult for toddlers with autism. Skills that may not come naturally to a child with autism include introducing yourself to a new friend, sharing, being empathetic, reading facial expressions, appropriate responses and so on.

If your child with autism has social skills deficits, communication deficits, physical deficits, emotional deficits, and/or behavioral deficits it is in the best interest of the child and for your family to address these deficits early. Early intervention can equip a child with autism with the tools and the skills that they will need to learn, be a part of the classroom community, play with peers, socialize and make new friends, control impulses, focus, communicate feelings, share thoughts, and take part in classroom discussions.

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Can early intervention cure autism?

Toddlers diagnosed with autism can make significant strides in their behavior, communication, and social/emotional health with early intervention. However, autism is a lifelong diagnosis. Autism doesn’t simply go away- it is managed.

A Boy & Girl Toddler Playing With A Stuffed Bear

Autism is a neurodevelopmental disorder that is diagnosed by the patient meeting certain criteria. The DSM-5 (The American Psychiatric Association’s Diagnostic and Statistical Manual, 5th Edition) explains that in order for a child to be diagnosed with an ASD (autism spectrum disorder), they must have persistent deficits in social communication and interaction, restricted, repetitive patterns of behavior, and intellectual impairments that may or may not include a language impairment.

Autism is diagnosed by your pediatrician, pediatric neurologist, or/and other specialists who are trained to identify deficits in your child’s development. 

Treating autism is a process. Early intervention is vital to the process because if a child is given the right treatment and guidance as early as possible, they may be able to make enough social, communication, and behavior improvements to be almost indistinguishable from their school-age peers.

This will vary from one child to another depending on the severity of their autism, of course. A child with mild symptoms who is struggling with socially appropriate behaviors may require minimal support. While children with severe deficits in their ability to learn or communicate effectively may benefit from several years of treatment. In either case, early intervention is the best strategy for helping a child with autism to overcome these deficits in social, emotional, communication areas, and in learning socially appropriate behaviors.

Given enough attention, there are toddlers who are diagnosed with autism at an early age who no longer fit all of the criteria for autism at an older age. Does that mean that they were never autistic? Did their autism magically disappear? No, autism does not magically go away. The goal in delivering proper treatment to children with autism is to get them to a point in their lives where they can interact with others, learn independently, live independently when they are older, and communicate effectively. Some of these changes can happen very naturally as a child develops and learns by observing others. Behavior therapy adds to that learning by addressing specific deficits that are hindering their independence and their ability to communicate and learn.

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Where can I find early intervention services?

If you suspect that your child has autism, or if your child has recently received a diagnosis of autism spectrum disorder there are many options for early intervention services.

The most obvious place to start would be to ask your pediatrician for suggestions or referrals. If working with your pediatrician is not helpful or possible, your next best option is to seek out assistance from your local health department.

A Mom Playing With Her Daughter On The Floor

Most states have free screening programs for toddlers with developmental concerns. These programs target children that are showing signs of developmental delays between the ages of birth to three.

To acquire Early Intervention Services, qualified professionals will evaluate and assess your child for delays or deficits in their development. Once it has been determined that your child qualifies for services, the frequency and intensity of services is determined with the needs of the child and the family in mind.

Early Intervention Services include whatever specific services are needed to support a child with autism with deficits in areas such as:

  • Physical Disabilities
  • Hearing and Vision 
  • Developmental Disorders
  • Family Counseling
  • Health Services
  • Medical Services
  • Nursing Care
  • Speech and Language Therapy Services
  • Psychological Services
  • Transportation
  • Social Work Services
  • Physical and Occupational Therapy Services
  • Nutritional Counseling

Families are entitled to many of these services at no cost. For the costs that are not covered at public expense, Medicaid and private insurances can often cover the cost of whatever services are needed. The cost of these services is determined by the family’s income and works on a sliding fee scale.

With increasing awareness and support for ABA services, there are increasingly more and more programs available to help with the cost of ABA therapy. Your state’s department of health is a good resource to start from when seeking services.
If your local department of health does not have resources for early intervention, Autism Speaks is an organization that is dedicated to autism advocacy. This organization is a great place to start when seeking services, information, or funding for services.

Early Intervention With Circle Care Services

Circle Care Services in New Jersey is an ABA agency that serves the needs of children with autism and the needs of their families. Circle Care works with several insurances to provide applied behavior analysis therapy at little to no cost for families in need.

Circle Care Services is staffed with highly qualified professionals that can come alongside you and your child to determine exactly what your child needs for the best possible outcome. Circle Care offers preschool readiness programs, social skills groups, individualized therapy in the home, at school or in a clinical setting.

Whatever your needs are, we can help. Give us a call at Circle Care in New Jersey to set up a consultation and evaluation for applied behavior analysis therapy. Our Board Certified Behavior Analysts will assess your child and develop a specific treatment plan that is designed to meet the needs of your child while meeting the needs of your family as well.

Give your toddler with autism the best start possible. Start them on the right path to learning and growing at the earliest sign of delay. Help your child to reach those developmental milestones and goals that will help them in school, in their community and long into the future when they become adults.

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Specialized Education Programs For Toddlers

cgross · January 5, 2022 · Leave a Comment

Table of contents

  • Specialized Education: What is it?
  • The Importance of Early Intervention
  • How Do I Know If My Child Qualifies for Specialized Education?
  • The Benefits and Where to Find Specialized Educational Services

Educational instruction that is delivered in such a way that it meets the unique needs of each individual is known as Specialized Education. Specialized Education is specifically targeted towards individuals who have developmental deficits that may cause learning or/and attention deficits.

Specialized Education: What is it?

We will describe various aspects of Specialized Education such as classroom modifications, curriculum modifications, and additional physical or academic support.

Classroom Modification

This includes things such as floor padding, wall padding, wheelchair ramps, and access to bathroom facilities, additional safety measures (outlet covers, locked cabinets), and easy access to each learning center.

Specialized Education Programs For Toddlers

Curriculum Modification 

This is also known as differentiated instruction. It is the addition to or the simplifying of an academic lesson to make the lesson understandable and manageable for each individual student. This could include the use of tangible objects for counting in a math lesson (adding to) or it might require scaling things down by covering all the words but one in a sentence while learning to read (simplifying).

Physical Support 

Many children with special needs require major assistance with daily tasks like eating or toileting. Other children with special needs may require minor physical support for anxiety or attention deficit disorders and may find it helpful to have fidgets to squeeze or perhaps an adult to make physical contact (hand on the shoulder) to redirect them back to the task. Each child is different in their needs which is precisely why each program is specialized for each child.

Academic Support

Children with special needs often have processing and comprehension delays which can make learning difficult. With specialized education, those specific deficits are identified and targeted for treatment and assistance so that the child is equipped with new skills for learning and understanding.

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The Importance of Early Intervention

One of the best ways to help a child with special needs is to start finding the right help and resources as early as possible. Children who struggle with communication, learning, language skills, social skills, or/and behavior are more likely to succeed if they receive intervention during their toddler and preschool years.

The Importance of Early Intervention

Children with autism require similar early intervention services with the addition of ABA (Applied Behavior Analysis) services to set them up for the highest chances of success by improving educational, emotional, and behavioral skills.

The most important types of intervention generally fall into these frameworks:

Behavior Modification 

This process uses ABA services, and it is very important. Without being taught socially acceptable behavior, it is difficult for a child with special needs to know what the social and behavioral expectations are for sitting in a classroom, listening to a teacher, or how to interact with a group of peers. These core or foundational skills are called pivotal skills because there are so many other skills that rely on the mastery of these foundational skills. Without basic pivotal skills (sitting still, using eye contact, actively listening, having calm hands, and calm bodies, taking turns to speak, etc)- it becomes very difficult to learn anything new.

Speech and Language Growth

Children with autism often have delayed speech and language deficits. Early intervention using ABA combined with speech therapy is a winning combination to promote better communication. Proper communication skills create a stronger likelihood of developing healthy and happy peer relationships in school and in the community. Children with autism need to be intentionally taught to interact, express needs, express emotions, navigate and resolve conflict, and solve problems. When these skills are taught at an early age, a child with autism will experience more positive interactions with peers and ultimately will be included in more activities and special events.

Academic/Learning Intervention

It stands to reason that if a child is taught better communication skills, they will find it easier to ask for help with academics and struggles in school. This is important because just like there are pivotal skills for behavior, there are pivotal subjects for academic learning. Reading and the ability to manipulate numbers are two of the most important foundational skills for children in the preschool and elementary school years. Reading could be considered a notch higher in importance only because reading provides additional help with mathematics later on if there is any struggle with more advanced math.

Without going into a lesson on brain development, let’s just say that there are stages and windows of opportunity for the most successful learning in various areas. With reading and math, it is important to have a good head start by the time a child enters kindergarten. That doesn’t mean memorizing multiplication tables and reading chapter books. But, a child between the ages of 3 and 5 should be counting and reciting the alphabet. Closer to kindergarten there should be some association of sounds with letters and some simple adding (one apple and another apple are two apples).

Children with autism sometimes have significant delays in learning due to an inability to focus or neurodevelopmental problems that may hinder learning. These difficulties take time and patience to work through and having solid pivotal skills is key in helping a child through these difficulties. This is specifically why ABA is so important for this population. A behavior analyst can assess a child with autism and identify what each individual child needs to overcome deficits and achieve success.
When a child understands and accomplishes a task at school, they feel good. They feel included with the students who understand and their behavior will reflect this.

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How Do I Know If My Child Qualifies for Specialized Education?

Childhood Development has distinct stages and milestones (see the previous blog). This is useful information because it can be hard to determine if something that your child is doing is normal for their age, personality, or if there is a genuine concern for their growth and development.

Child Qualifies for Specialized Education

As early as possible, see your pediatrician with any concerns that you may have. Some parents have noticed concerning behavior before the age of one and had an autism diagnosis before the age of two. This is advantageous because this allows for early intervention in all areas: behavior, speech skills, motor skills, communication, and learning.

If your child has already started school, that’s okay. Start from where you are. Talk to your child’s teacher, school psychologist, school admin, or whoever you need to speak with to get your child tested for learning deficits. Simultaneously, see your pediatrician, who can evaluate your child for neurological concerns such as ADD, ADHD, Autism, or PDDs.

Once you have your child evaluated and diagnosed, your school can help with an Individualized Education Plan (IEP) and make any accommodations that might be necessary to help your child. For example, your child may require a smaller population with more attention for a couple of grade levels or more. 

Outside of school, a diagnosis of any neurodevelopmental disorder that affects learning can help you to secure ABA therapy services, speech therapy services, occupational therapy services, or whatever else your child requires for early intervention services.

These types of learning deficits are not something that should be self-diagnosed or applied as a label to a child who hasn’t been evaluated properly. Not only will that affect your child negatively, but without proper evaluation, it is nearly impossible to secure the appropriate resources for helping your child.

The Benefits and Where to Find Specialized Educational Services

Early intervention prepares a child for a greater chance of being successful in all areas of life. Teaching skills at a young age in a natural and playful way makes learning behavior, communication, and even academic skills fun for children. This is what ABA is all about.

ABA uses a child’s natural environment to shape and build the skills that a child with autism needs in order to participate and interact with peers of the same age.

If intervention happens early enough, it can significantly reduce the need for specialized education and support in the future. All hope is not lost with older children, but this becomes more difficult with a later start. With all neurodevelopmental disorders that affect learning, earlier is always better.

Circle Care Services in New Jersey is an awesome example of the innovation in education that is currently developing. Circle Care Services is an ABA Therapy provider that offers social clubs for older children and a preschool program that provides early intervention services in a school setting.

Circle Care’s preschool program begins with an evaluation by a Board Certified Behavior Analyst. The BCBA will identify the areas that your child with autism is currently struggling with and create a specialized program that will help your child with their social, academic, and behavioral skills. Your child receives all of this while in a classroom setting with other peers of the same age. This eliminates the need to have ABA services after school when your child is already tired from a long day.

The preschool program also allows for close and careful guidance in a natural setting as the behaviors are taking place. Your child’s therapist can guide, correct, redirect, and reinforce all of the appropriate behaviors and skills as they happen.

If this sounds like a good fit for your child and your family, we would love to help. Circle Care is ready whenever you are. Give us a call and set up a consultation today.

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Getting Haircuts For Your Child With Autism

cgross · October 27, 2021 · 2 Comments

Table of contents

  • Haircuts And Autism
  • Thoughts And Ideas To Consider:
  • Be Patient

Hair salons are busy places that are filled with noises whether it comes from idle chatter between stylists and customers or stylists blowing a customer’s hair dry with a hairdryer. The smell of shampoo may not affect most of us, yet it could be very significant to a child with autism.

What about the decor? Televisions, posters, mannequin heads, lights, plants, hair, and nail swatches, and the list goes on…

Finally, the hairdresser’s station is filled with tools of the trade. Combs, hot irons, hairdryer, scissors, electric razors that vibrate and buzz. What looks like a typical salon to most of us may look scary and dangerous to a child with autism who has sensory issues.

Haircuts And Autism

These two words can bring tears to a parent’s eyes at the thought of having to endure the stress, the embarrassment, and the trauma that seems to be a faithful companion to autism.

Getting Haircuts For Your Child With Autism

Children with autism often have high levels of anxiety when it comes to events like haircuts. This anxiety is often associated with sensory issues and fear of the unknown.

It is difficult for a typically developing individual to imagine what it must look like, sound like, or feel like to be subjected to an environment like this. Many children actually look forward to visiting the hairdresser so they can watch a movie and get a reward at the end of the visit. For children with autism, it may take a little bit of strategizing to get them to this point.

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Thoughts And Ideas To Consider:

Your number one goal when it comes to getting your child a haircut is to find a hairdresser that loves kids and has patience with kids. We have all heard (or experienced) the horror stories of haircutters who gave up and sent a screaming child home with half of a haircut because the tantrums from the child were out of control and it was becoming dangerous to use scissors on a flailing screaming child.

A child-friendly haircutter will know how and when to approach a child. They will know how to work with parents to accomplish the task and they won’t become impatient or cruel with a child.

Even more important than the hair cutter is to prepare your child for the experience of a haircut. What are some things that you can do to ease your child with autism into the idea that getting a haircut is a good thing and a fun thing?

Use Social Stories

Thoughts And Ideas To Consider

Children with autism appreciate and need explanations and they need to see, hear, smell, or touch something to know how to respond. There is no better example than a haircut. If your child with autism has never seen anyone get a haircut, read a book about it, or watched a video of a positive experience with a child getting a haircut then it is perfectly reasonable to react strongly to the idea of someone coming at them with shiny, sharp scissors! Take your child along when YOU get a haircut, or when one of his/her siblings gets a haircut. Let him/her see that there is nothing to fear, that it doesn’t hurt to have your hair cut, and that the end result is nice-looking hair!

Give Your Child Something To Calm Himself/Herself During The Haircut

It could be a tablet with a favorite video or movie, a fidget of some sort, a favorite doll, or it could be sitting in your lap while he/she gets the haircut. Whatever it is for your child, make sure you provide. Your child won’t always need it. But, while he/she is young and just learning about these things, there is nothing wrong with helping your child by using sensory tools to help them feel calm during a stressful situation.

Take Your Child On A Pre-Visit

If possible, take your child to the salon in advance to meet the hairdresser and see the environment where he/she will go to get their haircut. This can help them prepare for the trip, and learn what to expect at the salon.

Role Play At Home

Get a cheap doll at the dollar store and play “hair salon”. Give the doll a haircut and dress the doll up and talk about how nice and calm the doll was during the haircut and how nice the doll looks after the haircut. Make it enticing and interesting and talk about how your child will get to do the same thing soon.

Explain The Steps Of A Haircut

You can use a visual schedule, watch a video, read a book, or talk through what to expect at the salon.

Remove The Fear Of The Unknown

The more preparation you can provide for your child, the better. In addition to preparing well, there are a few more things that you can do.

Schedule It For An Optimal time

Try to schedule your child’s appointment at the least busy time of the day. You can also try to schedule your child’s appointment during a time of day when your child is at their most relaxed state. Avoid scheduling your child’s appointment at times when your child is overtired or overwhelmed.

Keep The Haircut Simple

This will ensure that the whole process can be kept short and sweet. For little boys, maybe a quick buzz or a simple short haircut if they are opposed to the buzzing shaver. (Tip: massage their back with the buzzer to see how they react to it. For some kids, it can feel good and soothing and for others, you might need to put it in the drawer and map out a new plan).

Test Some Salon Items At Home

If available, try using some salon items at home and show your child with autism how they work. Try the hair clippers, combs, scissors, and hairdryer. Show them how they work on you first and then ask him/her if he/she wants to try it out on himself/herself. Show him/her that there is nothing to fear.

Reward Your Child For A Job Well Done

Once you’re at the salon, use rewards for your child when he/she responds appropriately. Support your child and continue to teach your child as much as you can about what is expected when he/she has difficulty with events such as these.

I want to learn more.

Be Patient

Struggles with haircuts can seem as though they will remain a problem forever. They do not. As children with autism learn and grow, they eventually learn that there are certain events that happen in their routine, and the better prepared they are, the less likely they are to experience anxiety at the thought of getting a haircut in the future.

or adverse response to a haircut

Be patient and do your best to react calmly in the event that your child has a tantrum or adverse response to a haircut. Be persistent with preparing them for haircuts with frequent visits to the salon and lots and lots of conversations about haircuts and what a wonderful thing that they are!

Circle Care Services is an ABA agency in New Jersey that specializes in helping children with autism. We can help to guide you through difficulties like these. We offer parent training and have trained behavior technicians that can provide behavior modification for your child with ABA therapy. We can help you to navigate the little things that feel like insurmountable big things by coming alongside you and your family and providing guidance and teaching new behavioral and social skills to your child.

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