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10 Outdoor Activities and Trips in New Jersey for Children With Autism

cgross · July 19, 2022 · Leave a Comment

Table of contents

  • 1. Jake’s Place Play Areas, Cherry Hill and Delran
  • 2. Cape May County Park and Zoo, Cape May Court House
  • 3. Heart of Surfing, Egg Harbor Township
  • 4. Trailside Nature and Science Center, Mountainside
  • 5. Sahara Sam’s Oasis Indoor & Outdoor Waterpark, West Berlin
  • 6. Allaire Community Farm, Wall Township
  • 7. Storybook Land, Egg Harbor Township
  • 8. Diggerland, West Berlin
  • 9. Red Bull Arena, Harrison
  • 10. Sesame Place, Langhorne, Pennsylvania
  • Conclusion

If you have a child with autism, you’re probably aware of the importance of having access to sensory-friendly places. On the other hand, you might not even be familiar with the concept of a sensory-friendly environment. To put it simply, a sensory-friendly place is a space that has been altered or changed in some way to be more calming for the senses. These include your five basic senses and your sense of balance and movement.

As you may well know, many children with autism experience sensory overload, which means their five senses absorb more information than their brains can process. This often makes them feel overwhelmed and a range of other negative emotions.

There are a variety of ways to create a sensory-friendly place. Here are some common and effective ways to make a more sensory-friendly environment.

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  • Reduced noise
  • Dimmed lighting
  • Quiet zones
  • Designated bathrooms
  • Eliminated scents or smells
  • Accessible seating
  • Reduced clutter

If you live in New Jersey and you’re looking for outdoor trips for your child with autism, you’re in the absolute right place. Bear in mind that the places listed below can have just one or two of the features listed above or a combination of those features, and you should never assume that a place has every one of them. Instead, you should do your due diligence and make sure the place you’re thinking of visiting has all the accommodations you need for your child.

1. Jake’s Place Play Areas, Cherry Hill and Delran

Known for its “playgrounds for everybody,” Jake’s Place play areas have balance beams, bridges, rock walls, stepping circles, and climber equipment, as well as specialized areas for children with autism. For enhanced safety, there’s also a fence surrounding the perimeter.

Built-in Challenger Park in Camden County to honor Jacob Miles Cummings-Nasto, who suffered from a rare cardiac condition that prevented him from enjoying certain activities in a traditional playground, this award-winning play place was founded on the belief that all children, including those with autism, deserve a place to play.

  • Cherry Hill address: 101 Bortons Mill Road, Cherry Hill, N.J. 08034
  • Delran address: 12 Hartford Road, Delran, N.J. 08075
  • Phone number: (856) 662-4418

2. Cape May County Park and Zoo, Cape May Court House

This 85-acre zoo, which is home to over 550 animals across 250 species, is the perfect place for your child with autism. Chances are that you’re aware of the fact that children with autism spectrum disorder benefit greatly from being around animals since animals provide a comforting presence and can alleviate stress and anxiety.

The zoo also boasts lush country gardens and a peaceful natural environment, not to mention a large playground right outside the zoo gates, that your child will surely enjoy.

  • Address: 707 Route 9 North, Cape May Court House, N.J. 08210
  • Phone number: (609) 465-5271

3. Heart of Surfing, Egg Harbor Township

Heart of Surfing, a nonprofit organization, teaches children with autism and other developmental disabilities how to surf, do yoga, roller skate, engage in fitness activities, and create art.

Although the organization started just a few years ago with only a few participating families, it has grown tremendously and continues to thrive.

  • Address: 409 Superior Rd Egg Harbor Township, NJ 08234
  • Phone number: (609) 705-5323

4. Trailside Nature and Science Center, Mountainside

Families who want to experience a calming and airy complex that exhibits wetlands, forests, and meadows should consider visiting Trailside Nature and Science Center. Other features of this place include a bird habitat, a wildlife viewing area, and a children’s discovery room that your child with autism will surely enjoy. There are also scenic nature trails through the Watchung Reservation, which is known for being the largest park in Union County.

Behind the center, there’s a sensory-friendly trail designed to encourage interaction and stimulate the senses in a fun and enjoyable way.

  • Address: 452 New Providence Road, Mountainside, N.J. 07092
  • Phone number: (908) 789-3670

5. Sahara Sam’s Oasis Indoor & Outdoor Waterpark, West Berlin

Special Needs Events at Sahara Sam’s Oasis offers fun and judgment-free evenings for individuals with developmental disabilities, including children with autism, to enjoy the waterpark with their friends and families.

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People who attend “Special Evenings at Sam’s,” also known as S.E.A.S., benefit from significantly reduced rates and a program that’s specifically designed to cater to the needs of individuals with developmental disabilities.

  • Address: 535 North Route 73, West Berlin, NJ 08091
  • Phone number: (856) 767-7580

6. Allaire Community Farm, Wall Township

Through its working farm environment and rescued animals, Allaire Community Farm seeks to “nurture through nature” children with developmental disabilities, as well as teens experiencing mental health issues, families battling cancer and veterans with PTSD.

Its outreach, events, and programs use equine therapy, animal therapy, vocational training, and organic gardening to support these families and individuals. In addition, the greenhouses and gardens support families that are undergoing financial or medical hardships, and all funds that the nonprofit farm generates are allocated towards propelling the organization’s mission.

  • Address: 1923 Baileys Corner Road, Wall Township, N.J. 07719
  • Phone number: (732) 796-3298
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7. Storybook Land, Egg Harbor Township

This quaint amusement park in Egg Harbor Township is all about nursery rhymes and children’s stories. Storybook Land offers a calming room, a quiet dining area, and a sensory-sensitive space where your child with autism can take a break.

It also hosts “Sensory Sensitive Weekends,” where music and sounds are brought down to lower decibels, geysers, and other water features are turned off, and Medical Access Passes (MAPs) are made available to families that can’t wait in line for food or rides.

  • Address: 6415 E Black Horse Pike, Egg Harbor Township, NJ 08234
  • Phone number: (609) 646-0103

8. Diggerland, West Berlin

Diggerland, which prides itself on being America’s only construction and waterpark, gives families with children the opportunity to ride, drive, and operate real machines in a fun, safe, and structured environment. And, when they’re not operating specially engineered machines, they can visit The Water Main, a construction-themed waterpark, to swim, soak, and slide.

Another feature that makes Diggerland ideal for your child with autism is that it offers fun, judgment-free “Special Abilities Nights” throughout the course of the year.

  • Address: 100 Pinedge Dr, West Berlin, NJ 08091
  • Phone: (856) 768-1110

9. Red Bull Arena, Harrison

If you’re looking for sensory-friendly places for your child, major league sports stadiums are probably not the first places that come to mind. However, in 2017, the New York Red Bulls established a “Permanent Sensory Room” so individuals with autism could take a break from the highly energetic, stimulating atmosphere of a major league soccer match.

Mother & Father Giving Their Children Piggy Back Rides Outdoors

The Red Bulls turned the arena’s executive office space into a calming area with light-colored walls and dimmed lighting. There are also fidget toys, visual aids, and sensory sacks filled with stress balls, headphones, and other sensory regulation coping tools for your child with autism to use.

Lastly, during the season, the Red Bulls host Autism Awareness Night, making for a fun and inclusive environment for individuals with autism.

  • Address: 600 Cape May St, Harrison, NJ 07029
  • Phone: (973) 268-8420

10. Sesame Place, Langhorne, Pennsylvania

Sesame Place may be right over the border in Pennsylvania, but it’s close enough to garner our attention and for you to consider taking your child with autism for a day trip. Known for being the first-ever theme park to be designated as a Certified Autism Center, Sesame Place provides quiet private rooms, low-traffic quiet areas, and a no-interaction parade viewing area so your child with autism can have the time of their life while learning in a fun, inclusive environment.

Visitors also get the chance to participate in a meet-and-greet with their favorite Sesame Street characters – like Julia, a curious and sweet four-year-old who has autism.

  • Address: 100 Sesame Road, Langhorne, Pa. 19047
  • Phone: (215) 702-3566
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Conclusion

Now you can see that having autism and other developmental disabilities does not mean you can’t have fun with your loved ones. After all, there are so many outdoor venues in New Jersey that offer a fun, inclusive, judgment-free environment for your child with autism.

If you really want to take their life to the next level and give them a safe and comfortable environment where they can learn, grow, and develop, contact Circle Care, where we provide ABA therapy in New Jersey, as well as other services tailored to your child’s specific needs. If you’re interested, sign up for our email newsletter to receive more tips and tricks like this!

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Why is Positive Reinforcement so Effective

cgross · July 8, 2022 · Leave a Comment

Table of contents

  • Is Positive Reinforcement Good for Autism?
  • Why is positive reinforcement more effective than punishment?
  • Why is reinforcing positive behaviour important?
  • How is positive reinforcement used?
  • What are some examples of positive reinforcement in the classroom?
  • Reinforcement Schedules
  • How Positive Reinforcement is used in ABA

Is Positive Reinforcement Good for Autism?

When a child with autism is learning new behaviors that are socially appropriate, they are usually unlearning socially inappropriate behaviors at the very same time. In fact, many times the new skills or behaviors that these children are learning in their ABA sessions are carefully planned replacements for socially inappropriate behaviors that the BCBA and parents have discussed and determined to work on as part of the child’s treatment plan.

One of the most successful methods of teaching and sustaining new skills and behaviors is the use of positive reinforcement. Positive reinforcement is simply the addition of a reinforcing stimulus (incentive) immediately following a behavior that makes it likely that the behavior will be repeated again. For example, if a child washes their own dishes after dinner without being asked and gets rewarded with compliments from mom and dad and a bowl of ice cream- the chances are high that this child will wash their own dishes again after dinner.

The ice cream is the stimulus immediately following the desired behavior of washing the dishes. As long as the ice cream is reinforcing to that child, they will most likely wash dishes with a smile on their face. It’s also a win-win because all parties are happy. Mom and Dad don’t have to argue with the child to wash the dishes and the child gets dessert.

Why is positive reinforcement more effective than punishment?

Positive reinforcement is more effective than punishment because it has more beneficial outcomes all the way around. Positive reinforcement involves adding something that is motivating and reinforcing to the child with autism while punishment requires subtracting or taking something away from the child. Taking things away from a child with autism can be frustrating for them and end up causing the exact opposite of the behavior goal in mind.

Father Giving Thumbs Up to Son as Positive Reinforcement

Just as an adult goes to work to earn a paycheck at the end of each week (positive reinforcement), it would cause great frustration and it would feel like punishment to be expected to work hard all week with little or no reward at the end of the week if a paycheck were reduced or withheld.

The idea behind positive reinforcement in ABA Therapy is to elicit a response or increase the likelihood that the child will repeat positive behavior. The goal is to teach appropriate social, academic, communication, and behavior skills that will become a regular part of their repertoire. Positive reinforcement is ideal for this because as human beings we are drawn to positive words and actions and we tend to find ways to avoid things we don’t like.

Positive reinforcement works because it encourages a child to comply without having to resort to yelling, threatening, punishing, shaming, or any other sort of damaging and ineffective technique that may result in long-term emotional harm like chronic anxiety or fear. Rather, positive reinforcement helps to develop good character, self-discipline, personal responsibility, and healthy self-esteem.

Children who are raised with parents who use positive reinforcement feel loved and cared for. They tend to exceed behavioral expectations as they seek more positive reinforcement and their behavior is consistently compliant on a more long-term basis rather than on a short-term basis because they are not responding to the moment in fear of punishment. They are confident and comfortable. They feel good about themselves and their surroundings and they show it in their behavior.

Why is reinforcing positive behavior important?

The most important reason for reinforcing positive behavior is that it teaches children with autism what is appropriate and acceptable. There is no cure for autism that will magically make it go away. However, according to a study by Lovaas in 1987, ABA has been successful at treating autism to the extent that half of all children with autism were considered “indistinguishable from their peers” after receiving intensive applied behavior analysis therapy for forty hours each week. Another 90% showed significant improvement.

ABA Therapist Uses Play Time With Blocks as Positive Reinforcement

Autism affects social skills, and without treatment, children with autism do not have a clear understanding of what is socially appropriate and inappropriate. Many children with autism lack the ability to filter their comments when they are speaking to their peers or adults and may seem rude or uncaring by saying exactly what they are thinking.

They may fail to be discreet with bodily functions or table manners. It may not occur to them to wait or raise their hand before speaking. They may cut others off in line without understanding why this would anger someone.

Whatever their atypical behavior may be, a new skill will need to be learned in order to establish a replacement behavior. The best way to teach a new skill is to continuously reinforce the appropriate behavior. The most successful way to reinforce a new skill so that it is likely to be repeated and generalized into other areas of the child’s life is to use positive reinforcement.

How is positive reinforcement used?

Positive reinforcement is delivered immediately following the desired behavior to encourage the child to repeat that particular behavior. But, that isn’t all there is to it. When a child is evaluated for ABA services, they are also evaluated for their preferences- their likes. What motivates your child? Do they like drawing? Playing outside? Video games? Dancing? Playing board games? Whatever it is that your child loves is what will motivate them to work with the ABA therapist as they learn new skills. When they complete a task the way that they are supposed to they earn their preferred item or activity.

Positive Reinforcement Is Fun and Rewarding for Children

Sometimes their preferences change and the things that motivate them aren’t inspiring anymore. That’s okay! There’s always something else that will encourage them and that’s what keeps ABA exciting for the child and the therapist! As the child learns, the sessions evolve, the treatment plans change and things can get pretty challenging for the child and therapist! But all the while, when the child is displaying appropriate behavior, the therapist is delivering positive reinforcement.

Positive reinforcement can be any of the following depending on what works for the child:

  • A tangible item (i.e. preferred item- toy, bubble, game, tablet)
  • Verbal praise delivered with enthusiasm ( “wow! Great job!)
  • An engaging play activity (tickles, tag, swing, trampoline, etc)
  • Food item (small snack, candy, cookie- with parent permission)
  • Break from “working”

The idea is to keep it interesting and to make it feel rewarding and fun. If it doesn’t feel rewarding and fun, then it isn’t positive and the child will not feel like completing any of the tasks during a session. Momentum during a session is part of keeping it positive.

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What are some examples of positive reinforcement in the classroom?

Is your child going to school? Some schools are gracious enough to allow ABA sessions in the classroom. More and more teachers are aware of ABA and learning how to implement some of the concepts in the classroom with success.

Some easy ways to use it in the classroom are to use the very same ideas mentioned above. When a student is on task- offer verbal praise instantly- right then and there! Catch them while they are on task and praise them with enthusiasm!

If a student is easily frustrated, allow that student to work in smaller segments of time, and before he/she gets to the point of frustration offer that student a break and tell them how good they are doing and tell them that you notice how hard they are working. Keep it positive!

When a student finishes a task, offer them a reward. Have a basket of snacks or small items available to reward them for completing a task. Praise them for getting the work done so quickly. Or just praise them for trying so hard. 

Look for opportunities to deliver praise and encouragement. Try to praise students so much that it outweighs the correction. This is positive reinforcement!

Reinforcement Schedules

How often reinforcement should be delivered is different for each child. For some children, it might take continuous praise to keep them focused and staying on task. This means that each and every time a child does the right thing, they should receive an enthusiastic response. One reinforcement for each appropriate response (1:1). You will know which child needs this because the one time that they don’t receive the positive reinforcement- the inappropriate behavior comes back. This one-to-one ratio (1:1) needs to keep happening until the appropriate behaviors start becoming automatic. In time, it will become possible to reduce the reinforcement to every other, or perhaps every third response, and eventually fade out reinforcement completely as the child becomes independent.

How Positive Reinforcement is used in ABA

Positive reinforcement is at the heart of applied behavior analysis and it is at the heart of what we do at Circle Care Services. Your child’s treatment plan is specifically designed to accommodate your child’s needs and our staff is trained to keep the experience fun and motivating for your child. By keeping the experience positive for your child, all of the work will feel like play!

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Why Does ABA Therapy Get a Bad Rap?

cgross · June 25, 2022 ·

Table of contents

  • The History of ABA Therapy: Where the Controversy Started
  • Why Are Some Advocates Against ABA Therapy?
  • Additional Controversial Claims
  • Is ABA Abusive?
  • Is ABA Therapy Too Tough on Children with Autism?
  • On the Topic of Reducing or Eliminating Behaviors
  • Modern Day ABA Therapy Practices

Applied Behavior Analysis is currently the most common method of treatment that is prescribed by physicians for autism spectrum disorders and other behavioral disorders. It has often been referred to as the “gold standard” treatment for children with autism and other developmental conditions.

This reputation has been established over time as ABA has collected decades of data-based evidence of its effectiveness with children who have received ABA treatment. The evidence consistently shows increased communication skills, improved attention, decreased problem behaviors, improved attention skills, and improved social skills – to name a few. But, just like anything “good for you” or “popular” or even something factual that has a proven history attached to it, there will always be opposition to counter all of the claims in favor of….ABA in this case.

The History of ABA Therapy: Where the Controversy Started

What are the controversies that surround ABA therapy? What is it about applied behavior analysis that people are opposed to? To put it simply, the biggest complaint from the opposition is that ABA is an overwhelming and cruel attempt to force children with autism to appear or behave “normal”. Those who oppose ABA would prefer to promote neurodiversity, “ the idea that people with autism or, say, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder or Tourette syndrome, should be respected as naturally different rather than abnormal and needing to be fixed.”

It helps to understand some of the histories behind ABA. Dr. Lovaas, one of the founding fathers of ABA, had a mission to make people with autism “indistinguishable” from their typical peers. There was a time when behavior therapy practices included treatment methods that are not acceptable norms in behavioral therapy today.

Daughter Imitating Her Father’s Thinking Pose While Doing a Drawing Activity

Electric shock therapy is one example of an aversive reinforcement method that was used to eliminate behaviors that were difficult to resolve with positive reinforcement. Behaviors that were self-injurious or harmful to others were often treated with punitive measures like shock therapy. However, as behavioral sciences have evolved and patient rights gained more attention, these methods were replaced with more acceptable and positive reinforcement methods.

Many people with autism use these outdated practices to speak out against ABA therapy. They cite Dr. Lovaas’ goal of making autistic people “indistinguishable” from their peers as an implication that autistic people are “broken” and need to be fixed. Many autistic people take offense to this notion and call this a human rights violation that strips people with autism of their dignity.

Why Are Some Advocates Against ABA Therapy?

One of the criticisms that are commonly heard is that ABA is too tough on children with autism spectrum disorders. Much of this opinion stems from the early 1960’s principles of applied behavior analysis and the use of Discrete Trial Training (DTT). Discrete trials were done in a clinical setting by requiring a child to sit at a table while a therapist presented the instruction (stimulus) in a formal teaching manner and waited for the child to respond. For example, the therapist would present two-color cards (yellow and red) and say “touch yellow”. The child would then respond correctly by touching the yellow card. If the child touched the wrong color card or failed to respond or left his/her seat- then that would be an incorrect response.

Depending on how the child responded, the therapist would deliver reinforcement or correction and repeat the procedure for a predetermined number of times.

In addition to the lack of consideration for the autistic viewpoint, the following misconceptions are often offered as rationale for the contempt of ABA.

  1. ABA benefits people around the autistic person rather than the person with autism.
  2. ABA does not accept the differences in autistic people within society and aims to “normalize” autistic people – even if they never asked to be “normalized”. Many people with autism like who they are, and they do not wish to change.
  3. ABA ignores emotions by not responding to “unacceptable” behaviors. Some of the “unacceptable” behaviors (like meltdowns or eloping) are a response to the overwhelm that an autistic person feels when they are forced to do something they do not want to do. The question becomes, who is the behavior “unacceptable” to?

Additional Controversial Claims

If you have ever heard that ABA therapists are “robotic” and that they lack emotion during therapy then you are probably speaking with someone who had a bad therapist. Discrete trial training (a repetitive step-by-step process of teaching) can be boring and tedious if you don’t put some fun and momentum into it.

Son Giving an Enthusiastic Positive Response to Father at Arcade

Discrete trials go something like this: The teacher (therapist) presents something to the child to provoke a correct response, the child responds (no response is also a response) and then there is a consequence to the response (reinforcement or no response if the child did not respond correctly). Therapists are trained to give an enthusiastic positive response to the correct answers and to quietly move on without response when the child answers incorrectly. This can easily be misconstrued as an emotionless response to the child. It isn’t meant to be emotionless. It is simply in contrast to the exciting positive reinforcement that is given when the child answers correctly. Children with autism need that clear distinction and there is a method at work here.

The same method is used for tantrums when the function of the tantrum is attention. If the child throws themself down on the floor for attention because two adults are talking, then it is in the best interest of the two adults talking to ignore the child until the child understands that the tantrum is not the best method for getting attention. Then the child will perhaps try something else. If they say “excuse me” then positively reinforce that with immediate attention! “Yes? What do you need?” Many people in the autistic community would argue that this approach lacks empathy. ABA therapists know that the evidence shows that this helps to shape positive behaviors while reducing negative behaviors.

Is ABA Abusive?

The term abuse implies a misuse of something, maltreatment of someone, or forcing someone to do something against his/her will. ABA therapy does not do any of the following:

  • ABA does not seek to force anyone to do things against his/her will. When properly practiced, ABA motivates or encourages a child with autism to practice a new, appropriate behavior or to stop a behavior that is interfering with daily living.
  • ABA therapy should never be conducted in a way that brings harm or maltreatment to an autistic person.
  • ABA should never be misused to teach or persuade a child with autism to do anything for the benefit of someone else. Every skill they learn should benefit the autistic child first.

The reality is that the benefits of ABA far outnumber and outweigh the complaints against the therapy. ABA is a well-established, evidence-based science that has helped many families to teach children early functional skills. Skills such as toileting, dressing, communicating, playing, and holding utensils or writing tools are all skills that children with autism will need in school and in real-world settings.

In addition to functional skills, ABA therapy is important for social skills as it helps to reduce behaviors that hinder social interactions and increases the ability to make and maintain friendships. Making friends is an important aspect of life, and children with autism often need assistance to understand which behaviors are acceptable and unacceptable in making and establishing friendships.

ABA also promotes independence in children with autism. The earlier these children learn independence, the more likely they will succeed in school and in the workplace as an adult. ABA teaches children how to be the absolute best version of themselves. Most importantly, ABA is family-centered and teaches parents their important role on how to help their own children with their difficulties or disabilities.

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Is ABA Therapy Too Tough on Children with Autism?

Therapy is not easy in any situation. It is challenging to work with a young child that may have difficulty with communication and sensory issues. Everything that an autistic child does has a purpose. They may pace, flap hands, vocalize or cry from anxiety or frustration, and their behaviors may bring relief.

A Woman Standing With Her Arms Up Looking Confused

If a therapist arrives and blocks these stress-relieving behaviors, the anxiety and frustration will rise. Yes, ABA is tough; therefore, it is essential to consider some of the points that are brought up by the autistic community:

  • Who is the therapy going to benefit?
  • Will eliminating certain behaviors improve learning and living for the child?
  • Will eliminating certain behaviors cause more stress and additional disruptive or inappropriate behaviors in the child?

If ABA is beneficial to the person with autism, then it may take some hard work – and yes, it may be tough; but sometimes it takes hard work to reach a goal that will help improve someone’s life.

On the Topic of Reducing or Eliminating Behaviors

Most parents are seeking ABA services for the purpose of eliminating socially awkward or inappropriate behaviors. However, as time has progressed and some of the patients of ABA have grown up to voice their own opinions, it has become increasingly clear that there is a population of people who do not appreciate being forced to hide their autism.

The opinions and feelings from the parents and the grown children with autism range from mildly irritated over the feeling of being overly compliant, to claims of outright abuse and PTSD over being forced to make eye contact or feeling controlled.

ABA therapy is never about force or control. ABA therapy is about teaching a child with autism the skills that they will need to communicate and to be able to do what their peers are doing. It is never the goal to remove someone’s identity or to cause anyone to feel less valuable because of a label or a disorder. The goal of ABA is to work in conjunction with a family that is seeking help because the child and the family are struggling with daily living.

Helping a person with autism to communicate a want or a need should not be torturous. Teaching eye contact should not be something that feels like a control issue. There are opportunities when a child will make eye contact and it is at those times that the therapist will use positive reinforcement to praise the child in hopes that they will repeat the eye contact again. There is no need to grab their face and demand that they look at you. Seeking opportunities to praise them is enough.

Stimming (flapping, clapping, waving, or any other repetitive movement or vocal tic)  is another area that people with autism take issue with. Many former ABA clients have spoken out against being taught how to control their stimming behaviors in public. This is an automatic behavior that helps people with autism to regulate emotions and by teaching them to withhold this behavior, many people with autism struggle with frustration and anxiety. There is a running sentiment from a segment of the autistic community that wants to be appreciated for their neurodiversity. This part of the community does not want to be “fixed”.

Modern Day ABA Therapy Practices

Positive reinforcement is at the core of everything we do in ABA therapy. The sterile clinical environment is in the past where it belongs. Unregulated behavioral modification programs are also in the past where they belong.

There may be times when it is appropriate for a child and their therapist to sit at a table in a clinical setting and do some work, but when it is obvious that a child can no longer focus their attention on the work then it is the responsibility of the therapist to give the child a break and keep frustration from settling in. It is also worth mentioning that a clinic back in the 1960s and 1970s looked much different than what we see now.

When you walk into an ABA center today, such as ours at Circle Care Services New Jersey, you are likely to see a room filled with equipment that is specifically designed for children who have sensory issues. There are hammock swings that squeeze a child into a fetal position while they swing, crash pads for children who need to bang their head or other body parts into people or objects, weighted medicine balls for children who tend to throw objects due to frustration, yoga balls to sit and bounce on, pads and balls to roll over and on the child who likes to feel squeezing or pressing for relief and much more.

By keeping things fun and by keeping sessions highly reinforcing with positive reinforcement, there should be little need for punishment procedures. If there is a need to use them, the positive reinforcement and redirecting of the child back to appropriate behavior would far outweigh any of the punishment procedures mentioned above (reprimands, overcorrections, response cost, and response blocking).

At Circle Care Services, we understand the concerns that parents have about finding the right team of professionals to help their children. If ABA is new to you and your family, it can be overwhelming trying to sift through the vast amount of information that is available online. The lingering controversies of the past can leave parents of a newly diagnosed child with autism feel conflicted and anxious. We have a great team of professionals at Circle Care Services who can answer any questions or concerns you may have regarding ABA therapy and practices. We also encourage building community with other families in New Jersey who are experiencing some of the same joys and challenges with their children.

Don’t let website controversies overshadow the overwhelming scientific evidence that ABA has provided for the last five decades. At Circle Care, we are not here to “fix” your child. We are here to teach and help children and families that are struggling with daily living skills and academics due to autism or other behavioral disorders. We appreciate everyone in all of their diversity and uniqueness and we want everyone to have skills for success. If you have any questions for our trained professionals at Circle Care, please feel free to contact us today. We offer free consultations and would be more than happy to answer any questions about ABA therapy.

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Who notices Mom’s unconditional devotion to the needs of her child with autism?

cgross · May 27, 2022 · Leave a Comment

Apparently more people than she knew… and thanks to Circle Care Services’ Gift Giveaway, she now knows it!

The Mother’s Day Giveaway that gifted Moms with the very best gift known to man (or woman)…love and appreciation.

Why this Mother’s Day Giveaway was Created

Raising a child with ASD is unique.

It’s one of those things that you have to experience to really know what it’s like.

Many parents feel lonely, different, or isolated amongst unsuspecting friends and family. The Autism Cafe blogger Eileen Lamb in her blog “Parents of children with special-needs: you’re not alone! looks to encourage parents who are living with this challenge by telling them, “When you’re struggling to keep going, remember that you’re not alone. When you feel like nobody notices you unless your child is screaming… When you’re wondering how you’re going to do it any longer, I want you to remember that you’re doing an amazing job. When you feel like nobody understands what you’re going through, remember that I do and there are a lot of us out here who do!”

There are many parents of children with autism who tell their stories in blogs or articles and they will say how their child with autism is the sun that lights up their lives. That’s very true, but if they include a realistic life journey they will not leave out the fact that coming to that place of serenity, appreciation, and peace took a lot of hard work. That it was a rollercoaster ride. That their daily lives were full of ups and downs. That on many days they felt lost or hopeless or full of shame and guilt. They will tell you that they used a truckload of inner strength to keep at it. To push for better.  To reach for more; just to meet the conflicting needs of their diverse family. 

More than a few studies report that parents of children with autism experience more stress than parents of typically-developing children. And updated research shows that parents of children with autism face the unmet need for emotional support on a daily basis.  

It was with this knowledge in mind, that we at Circle Care undertook a self-imposed challenge to spread strength and support to Moms of children with autism. Looking to make an impact, we launched our second annual Mom’s Gift Giveaway on Mother’s Day May 8, 2022.

Designed to Spread Strength to Moms of children with Autism

Does she know how much you care?

That was the message that arrived in the inboxes of hundreds of our contacts as we called upon them all to partake in our unique Gift  Giveaway. We promoted this Giveaway on our Facebook and Instagram pages (yeah, go ahead, check us out, and follow) suggesting that as a supportive gesture, they nominate a mom who mothers a child with ASD to be entered into a raffle for a $500 gift card to Bed Bath and Beyond. 

The response was heartwarming and exciting, as the entries came into the Circle Care office. 

The very first entry came from a husband nominating his wife to receive the gift. 

Other entries came from our BCBAs and BTs sending messages of admiration and recognition to their clients’ moms. 

Proud Moms nominated their daughters.

Even a child reached out (together with Dad) to try and win for his mom. 

Every nomination came in with a personalized note, a message of love and support which we forwarded to the mom. 

Messages such as this one: 

“I have never known anyone who devotes more of their life to their child and she deserves so much more credit than I could ever give. She’s been my backbone through all of this and I wish she gets all she could ever want. I know all she looks for is happiness for us and our children. All I ever look for is that smile on her face.”

And this one: 

She is the most loving, patient, devoted mother to two autistic kids. She is their greatest advocate! From the moment she wakes up she fights for them either getting them therapy services, equipment, or extra curricular activities to help them in their development. She believes in them with her whole heart. She is their greatest cheerleader! 

And this one: 

She has been overcoming all the obstacles that has been coming her way to raise her son. She is doing her best to bring up her son as a good human. She believes God has chosen her to bring up her son who is affected with asd and wants to fulfill the purpose. She is determined to win this battle in life!

These heartfelt messages not only brought tears to my eyes, but also touched the hearts of the moms who reported back to us after we forwarded the notes to them.

Screenshot Of Positive Message From Mother After Being Nominated For A Giveaway

These emotion-filled responses from grateful moms affirm that all $850+ that we spent on this initiative was absolutely worth the joy we were able to bring to the hearts of a strong, hardworking, and underrecognized group of women. 

Our Winner

On May 23, 2022, it was finally time to choose one winning mom. 

With the spin of the wheel, Edyta became our lucky winner! 

Mother And Her Child With Autism Who Won Circle Care's Giveaway

The contest was over, and our winner was thrilled, but we were unsettled. We didn’t have the heart not to reward all participants. These moms live every day by accepting that you can’t always win. We wanted everyone to win at least something in our strength-boosting initiative. We want every mom to know that when you invest in your child’s future, you should never feel like a loser!

So, we sent every nominated mom a $10 Amazon gift card for her to enjoy.

These women exhibit strength and tenacity without glittering fanfare.  

These women withdraw oceans of strength from their inner reserves without asking for anything in return. 

These women will move heaven and earth for their child or as one mom said, “I won’t sleep until I get my child set up with the services he needs”.

And that in a nutshell is the ultimate goal at Circle Care Services. 

To support as many families living with autism as we can with empathy, compassion, and quality services. 

We know we’ve made an impactful difference in the lives of moms living with autism this Mother’s Day, and we will continue to make a positive difference in the lives of children with autism every day through ABA therapy.  

Get in touch today, and we will put our heart into your child’s ABA 

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10 Engaging Play Activities for Kids with Autism

cgross · March 29, 2022 · 2 Comments

Table of contents

  • Why Play is Important for Kids with Autism
  • How Autism Spectrum Disorder Can Affect Play
  • How to Choose the Right Activities for Kids with Autism
  • What Are the Best Activities for Autistic Kids?
  • Ten Great Activities for Autistic Kids

If you have ever taken the time to sit and watch your child or other children at the park, you will probably find it amusing. The things that they do can seem so silly and almost senseless at times as they stand in one spot and twirl or scoop up a handful of sand and walk it across the playground and dump it at the bottom of the slide. The things that they say are funny, too. One kid is the mom and the other is the dad and the conversations that they have while they are in character can sometimes be revealing as to what their life at home is like. (Watch what you say around the kids, mom, and dad!).

Why Play is Important for Kids with Autism

As it turns out, not one thing that children do is separate from observation, imitation, and learning. Their playtime is not random. They are always processing new words, actions, and skills that they have been taught or that they have seen someone else do. When you think about it, play is almost like a rehearsal for life in the present and in the future. Children find their identity through play and sort out feelings through play.

Play= learning.

Play Activities for Autistic Kids
  • Jean Piaget, a developmental psychologist, said “Play is the work of childhood.”
  • Television personality, Mr. Rogers once said, “Play is often talked about as if it were a relief from serious learning. But for children, play is serious learning.”

These truths apply to all children and children with autism are no exception to these sentiments. Whether you are creating activities for autistic toddlers, preschoolers or older kids the benefits of play are the same. Playful activities teach social skills, inspire creativity, increase learning and understanding, improve communication and develop fine and gross motor skills.

Through play, many children find hobbies and interests that evolve into lifelong interests and potential career paths. For kids with autism, play can be the catalyst for making friends more easily, transitioning from special education settings to general education settings, and being able to acclimate to various social settings.

How Autism Spectrum Disorder Can Affect Play

It can be difficult to engage a child with autism in play activities. One reason is that many kids with autism get stuck in repetitive patterns and they can be resistant to interruptions to their patterns. Secondly, kids with autism also have difficulty focusing which can be challenging to anyone who is attempting to engage them in a play activity. Finally, communication can be problematic because many kids with autism are more focused on body movement during play rather than on the language that is required to learn the rules or concepts during play.

Autism Spectrum Disorder Can Affect Play

Ironically, these tendencies that make play difficult for kids with autism are the very reason that play becomes even more important in order to resolve them. It is during play that new patterns can be introduced, attention can be increased and communication skills can be improved.

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How to Choose the Right Activities for Kids with Autism

Choosing the right play activities for kids with autism is similar to choosing activities for any other child.

Right Activities for Kids with Autism

Choose activities based on their interests.

This will help to keep the child engaged in the activity. This can help to gradually increase their focus and attention skills.

Structure activities around the child’s strengths.

If they enjoy building things, try to incorporate some building activities into structured playtime. By using Legos, stacking toys, K-nex, tinker toys, or even something as simple as dominoes, integrating a skill that they are good at can facilitate learning new skills without them even realizing that they were involved in a structured activity.

Cater to their senses.

If your child finds it calming to squish and squeeze textures like playdough or kinetic sand then it would make perfect sense to structure an activity around that particular substance. Think about which textures, sounds, smells, and sights they enjoy and use those things. Think about how focused some kids can become when music is played. Use that to your advantage when you structure activities for your child with autism.

Use visuals.

Kids with autism are primarily visual learners- use this to create engaging activities for autistic toddlers, autistic preschoolers, and older autistic kids. Picture cards can be used as prompts to perform certain activities or as a visual aid to teach a sequence or outline the rules of activity. Being able to look at instructions rather than listen to instructions is typically easier for most kids with autism.

Keep communication and directions for activities short and simple.

Kids with autism can easily become overwhelmed with too many directives at once. To avoid triggering any frustration it is always best to deliver instructions in short and direct statements. Modeling the desired steps or actions is also helpful while verbally explaining them.

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What Are the Best Activities for Autistic Kids?

The best types of activities for toddlers, preschoolers, and school-aged kids with autism are the activities that take all of the things mentioned above into consideration. Simple activities that are visually stimulating, sensory engaging, and centered around the autistic child’s interests and abilities are the best.

The following ideas can be modified to suit the needs of toddlers, preschoolers, or older children with autism. The goal is the same no matter the age of the child- to teach and to help the child to focus and engage.

Ten Great Activities for Autistic Kids

Calm Down Bottles

Using any plastic beverage container (water or soda), fill the container with a bottle of glitter glue and warm water. For an extra glittery effect, add another bottle of glitter glue or additional fine glitter before adding the warm water. Close the bottle and shake it up. The glitter swirls for an unexpectedly long time and slowly settles. Kids with autism will be mesmerized for long periods of time by all of the swirling and spinning which will eventually slow down and settle on the bottom. Calm-down bottles are ideal for long waits, car drives, getting haircuts, or meltdowns in the classroom. (Great visual/sensory activity for children with autism from preschool to adolescence)

Seek & Find Bottles

This activity is similar to the glitter bottle with the exception of the contents. Seek and find bottles are filled with rice and small objects that you can find around the house or at an arts and crafts store. The idea is to keep your child with autism occupied by finding all of the objects in the bottle. You can create picture cards to show what items your child needs to find in each bottle or simply ask your child to find a particular object. These bottles can be a great teaching tool because you can make various themes with each bottle. For example, if Halloween is approaching, you can fill one with jack o lanterns, ghosts, witches, and bats. If summer is just around the corner, you might make a “seek and find” bottle with sunglasses, beach balls, swimsuits, and watermelons. You may even want to use sand instead of rice. It’s up to you to get creative and develop a theme that will interest your child. (Great visual/sensory activity for autistic toddlers, autistic preschoolers, and older autistic kids)

Yoga Ball Activities for Toddlers & Preschoolers with Autism

Toddlers and preschoolers are notorious for their boundless energy. They need to spend that energy in appropriate ways or they will find other ways to let it all out. Using a yoga ball in a designated area with plenty of floor space, you and your child can roll the ball to one another, you can place the child on the ball and teach them to bounce on it while trying not to fall off (great exercise for balance and strength while trying to hold themselves up), or you can lie the child on top of the ball on their tummies and roll them back and forth while holding their feet. All of these exercises require a bit of coordination which is a great therapeutic strategy for improving balance. (Great physical activity for proprioception- or body position awareness-for children with autism from preschool to adolescence)

Climbing, Jumping, Pushing, Pulling, And Carrying

Kids with autism often have difficulty with body awareness and understanding where they are in relation to space. Because of this, they can appear clumsy, loud, or overly cautious. Choose activities that encourage climbing (rock walls, playsets), jumping (trampoline, jump rope), pushing (shopping carts, push brooms), pulling (raking leaves, pulling wagons), and carrying (laundry basket, groceries). Providing multiple opportunities in all of these areas with various everyday tasks can help your child develop better body and spatial awareness. (Great physical activity for autistic toddlers, autistic preschoolers, and older autistic kids)

Emotions: Paper Emoticon Cutouts

Using colored construction paper, markers or crayons, and glue you can craft several different “emoticons” just like the ones you use on your cell phone. Draw and cut out various eyes, noses, mouths, and eyebrows. Arrange the features to display the emotions: happy, sad, jealous, bored, frustrated, sleepy, and whatever other emotions that you are teaching your child. Write the word for the emotion on the back of each face that you and your child construct and use them to talk about different moods and feelings as they arise. (Great creative activity for teaching social skills and communication skills to children with autism from preschool to adolescence)

Paper Fortune Tellers

Most children learn how to make a paper fortune teller at some point during their school years. These are awesome tools for teaching communication and social skills. You can create any number of topics with a paper fortune teller and work on skills like asking questions, dealing with teasing, identifying feelings, giving and receiving compliments, and working out social situations. (Great creative activity for teaching social skills and communication skills to children with autism from preschool to adolescence)

Sorting Activities

This activity teaches categorizing and organizational skills. This can be modified to be appropriate for autistic toddlers and preschoolers as well as older autistic kids. For toddlers, you can have them sort dolls and blocks. Preschoolers can sort colors. Older autistic kids can sort coins, letters, and words by beginning and ends sounds. This activity has room for creativity so that you can cater to your child’s interests. (Great learning activity for teaching labeling, categorizing, organizing, and observational skills to autistic toddlers, preschoolers, and older autistic kids)

Texture Play

Use any texture to soothe or teach a skill. For example, shaving cream and water beads have a smooth, squishy calming effect that most kids with autism love to swirl and scoop. For those who have an aversion to a particular texture, these activities can be introduced slowly and help them to overcome the aversion. This activity is not only fun for toddlers and preschoolers but older kids love it, too. One great way to teach writing and spelling is to pour a package of powdery jello mix into a baking tray and have them write letters and words in the jello powder with their fingers. The best part is licking fingers in between each word. This activity appeals to their senses and their appetite while they are learning in the process. (Great sensory activity for calming as well as a wonderful learning activity for teaching academic skills to children with autism from preschool to adolescence)

Life Skills & Feature Function Cards

These cards are a useful activity for kids with autism. In particular, older children can benefit from learning associations between things as they are exposed to more experiences in their daily lives. For example, from an array of animal images on a card, you can ask a child which one barks (the dog of course). From an array of kitchen appliances, you can ask your child which object cooks food (microwave). Do this with any relevant associations that you are trying to teach your child and this can make learning fun. (Great learning activity for teaching life skills to autistic toddlers, preschoolers, and older autistic kids)

 Visual Organizers for Task Sequences

Any activity that requires several steps to completion can be broken down into steps (first, second, next, then & last) and placed in a visual organizer for an autistic kid to follow. For example, a morning routine could be organized as follows:

  • First: Turn off the alarm
  • Second: Get dressed
  • Next: Eat breakfast
  • Then: Brush teeth
  • Finally: Get on the school buss

All of these steps would have a visual representation that can be placed on a task board using velcro to fix it in place. Any task can be put into a visual sequence. This activity is helpful in teaching multi-step skills to kids with autism. The pictographs are especially helpful to toddlers and preschoolers. (Great learning activity for teaching life skills to children with autism from preschool to adolescence)

Get Started Today!

These are just a few ideas that parents, teachers, and caregivers can use to turn learning into play for kids with autism. Those who are closest to a child know best how to create useful activities based on the child’s interests, strengths, and needs. If you live in the New Jersey area find out how Circle Care Services can help. Our therapists are creative and can help develop activities that are well suited for your child. We provide one-to-one ABA therapy,  social skills groups, and qualified staff that will not make you wait before coming onboard to find fun and playful solutions to your child’s needs. Now run along and play with your child!

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